Are we good Samaritans?

**998S** · 10-30-2011, 10:41 AM

Well, here is the story:
A foreigner, and well know member of this forum, let's call him "Mr. X", had a bike trip outside of Shanghai this week.
On the riverside road, without too much traffic, and on the opposite side, he watched an e-biker all of a sudden making some strange moves.
The e-biker finally fell with his bike, face down, and did not move. Upon getting closer, there was blood on his body.

Mr. X stopped his bike, sat down, tried to turn and lift the guy, only to notice he had passed out.
So he stepped on his bike again, drove to the toll station in the proximity, got (after lots of talk and language-confusion) the police officer convinced to follow him by car, and finally got the poor e-biker loaded into the car and taken care of (or not...).

In good spirits Mr. X rode home, only to be met by his Chinese GF, who got insane at him after he told her that he helped the poor guy who fell of his bike.
He was clearly told never ever to come even close to such a person in the future, let alone help.
Then, the following days, he was told again and again the same "never do that again" by his Foreign and Chinese friends and colleagues.

This morning, he visited my place, and I found myself telling him exactly the same as well, even before I learned that all of his friends and GF had told him so.

However, after thinking a bit more today, I start to doubt myself.
Are we sunken soo deep that this is what we think and do? Is this society so much affecting us as well?
Or did I make a mistake by advising him the way I did, and should I follow his example of being a good Samaritan the next time I see something bad happen (probably tomorrow morning

?

PS.
I have had an accident, with 50/50% responsibility, was tried to be screwed, and only finished that case in court after >1 1/2 yr.
I have seen first hand how the victim, his family, and the free lawyer tried all means to get me pay more then even the Chinese law requires.
Pretty nasty stuff.

**bigdamo** · 10-30-2011, 01:06 PM

Interesting post.Time and time again I am told I am not the world police.Mind my own business by family and friends and there probably right "when in Rome".

Interestingly the Chinese bring up that case regarding the 2 year old being left dieing on the road and how they would of helped.I just say" yeah right".

One has a moral compass just depends which way it points.

I believe in Karma or at the very least if it is you or I in need of help hopefully some one will help out .What goes around comes around.

**ZMC888** · 10-30-2011, 02:39 PM

Alas a minority of people have a 'sociopath like' attitude to the rest of the world, sometimes they show love and generosity towards their own family and even sometimes colleagues and former school mates. However strangers are there to be screwed over and lying or blaming someone else for money is just considered as 'good business sense' and morality doesn't really enter their minds.

I also have a horrible suspicion that some people may be crossing the road incompetently, letting their toddler run free without supervision or their expensive dogs roam free more willingly as they will 'get a nice little compensation payout' should the worse happen.

So honestly, and with sadness really you just can't get involved in these things, if you do you are gambling with your money, time and wellbeing. Hopefully the law can be clarified one day and people can be able to help each other without fear of blame.

**lobotomous** · 10-31-2011, 02:46 AM

Good for you Mr X, and shame on your GF and co. for taking a cowardly stance on what is essentially a good ol' moral panic.

**chinabiker** · 10-31-2011, 07:53 AM

People seem to follow the "don't get involved if it isn't your business, otherwise it may get you in trouble" principle - obviously out of bad experience.

I drove my car on a expressway just outside Beijing last year, when I witnessed an accident just half a km ahead. A Jinbei minibus hit the center guardrail and toppled over. I was preparing to stop when my three Chinese colleagues shouted at me and convinced me to move on. Later they said that the guys from that car may tell police that I caused them to crash, particularly because I am the Laowei.
I also was told by my Chinese riding buddies not to stop at the scene of an accident for the very same reason and that it may be a staged incident and people are going to rob you.

I was never tempted to find out though.

Sadly, this is China.

**Kennon** · 10-31-2011, 05:00 PM

this is a real shame over here in the UK the bikers are so friendly to each other especially if someone runs out of fuel, and fi your having a running problem they will even follow you to the garage to make sure you get there safely with no further problems, when i went back to hong kong i found so many people consistantly going people who own motorbikes arent nice people. iv only had one incident when peopel havnt been friendly to me saw a few people admiring my bike then they tried to steal the keys off me thankfully i was near a sports bar and a load of guys came out to help me out

**Jonsims** · 11-15-2011, 03:20 AM

He did the right thing.. Good on Mr X..
Here is one of ours.. We were on our way to Jiangxi for a few days and on the road we passed a woman, topless and obviously of diminished mental abilities. The problem was she had a great body and a cracking pair of tits. Now I was considering stopping and giving the woman a spare T shirt but then I remembered what it is to be a good samaritan and drove on leaving her where she stood and remembering those gorgeous melons.
I guess you are asking how this could be an act of a good samaritan? Well.. it's obvious.. Apart from my mates there would be hundreds and hundreds of men driving along that road. It would be so cruel to deprive them of such a lovely pair of jugs..