China wives

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Lightlend, any divorced woman with kids is almost next to impossible to get marry again in China, and she is with a mix-blood. It looks to me she is pushing you, she might just not thinking right, for her, divoce is lose cause.
I have a feeling she is spoiled child, without consider her family wealth, i make no conclusion.

i would like to add a cultural note: In china if the girl has reached 30 and has not married it is considered 'Shameful'! they will quickly marry at any opportunity. Also, with Spring festival just passing now, unmarried girls push to have a boyfriend to take home for the holiday, or at least be able to say they have a boyfriend, because everyone will ask them "when are you getting married"?

Another cultural note...If the girl is not married around Spring Festival time, her Friends will give her money, even her Boss at work will give the unmarried female money!!
again....Shameful

so there is a strong push not to be single

True. The money is put in red envelope. It's also a custom.

p.s. Silly me, I didn't read daughter (left to you) part closely. One attemp to solve problem is to contact parents-in-law. Probabaly need a translator. Unlike other cultures, Chinese parents influnce their child's decision in great deal.