Well to be honest, there is a lot more in China than one or two incidents. Its that many foreigners have very short term mentality in China and also treat fellow foreigners as short term relationships and tools. Juice info and relationships and then either disappear or act like they know all the shit in the neighborhood. Also some will treat locals with Master/slave mentality... they feel entitled.

Also the tone on many of the members here that have know-how have driven away many and have created a hostile environment. I know where NZ is coming from so I have the luxury of moving back to HK, SG for short bursts to get away from the China 4N and locals. it helps and damn relaxing. :)