sorry havnt been on here for a few days.
told my wife she could have 1,000rmb every 10 days. any more she needed to work. that wasnt met with much warmth, she negotiated i give her 3,000rmb per month and every 2 months i give her my whole pay packet. i refused.......
well, the result is tomorrow is the day she said she would leave us (me and my daughter),
she is now packing a bag. now im nerviouse and worried. im not sure i can take of work /9evenings and nights, and keep my daughter with someone.
its prob for the best she is leaving (if she actually leaves) but im worried as hell, i have no friends here in hanzhou and my chinese isnt good enought to hire an aye (I can only just order a food delivery thing).